When you become a caregiver, the advice comes fast and loud.

Everyone has something to say.

“You need a better routine.”
“Just try more stimulation.”
“You should hire help.”
“You shouldn’t rely on help.”

It’s constant. It’s conflicting. And at the end of the day…
you’re still the one figuring it out alone.

The Problem Isn't Advice - It's the Lack of Context

Most advice is well-meaning.
But caregiving for someone with dementia is complex — and personal.
What works for one family may completely fail in another.

Advice that’s missing context, compassion, and follow-through?
That’s not guidance.
It’s noise.
And it can leave caregivers feeling more confused, not less.

What Caregivers Really Need

When I work with families, I don’t start with a list of things to try.
I start with the bigger picture:

• Who is this person — not just their diagnosis, but their preferences, habits, fears?

• What’s already working?

• What’s overwhelming?

• Who’s helping — and who’s adding more stress?

From there, we create structure.
Small wins.
Realistic plans.
Not more “shoulds” — just clarity.

This Week's Video: Why Structure > Suggestions

If you’ve been feeling buried under advice…
If everyone seems to have an opinion, but no one’s around when it matters…

I want you to know:
You’re not failing.
You’re just missing a plan that actually fits your life.

That’s what this week’s video is about.
🎥 Watch it now

And it’s why next month, I’ll be teaching a full training on managing dementia behaviors — because this system has left caregivers on their own for too long.

💬 You don’t need another tip. You need tools.
And I’ll be here to help you build them.

I’m here sharing for you, while you are caring for them.
—Laura

🫂 Join the Conversation:

• Need a community where you can ask for help and get real support?
  Join my FREE Caregiver Support Group here
  👉 Dementia Caregivers Success & Support Network.

📚 Resources to Support You:

• Grab your Medical Assistance Planner and get organized.

• The Caregiver Gap Report — a free guide that breaks down what no one told you, and how to get the support you actually need. 👉 Download The Caregiver Gap Report right now

• Explore the Dementia Caregivers Academy Course for in-depth strategies and support.

• Check out our other free Resources here.

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